So if you’ve read my sporadic posts you have figured out that my ex and I don’t get along well. But suddenly, about a week ago there was a complete turnaround. She spoke civilly to me, asked to make sure that LP didn’t need anything, and even called again later to make sure that I didn’t need money right away (she had forgotten the child support check). I was just shocked. Then, yesterday, she called to let me know she had to work this weekend and couldn’t take LP. We even had a nice conversation. While I’m happy not to have this underlying hostility, I have to admit I’m both suspicious and skeptical. She has been so nasty to me for the last few months that it seems odd for her to have a complete turnaround for no apparent reason. My BFF says that maybe she is finally moving on and content. While I hope that is true, it’s bittersweet. Talking to my ex was hard when she was being so nice. I miss that person. She was my best friend for 10 years. One day maybe we can be friends again. For now I will try to enjoy this apparent truce.
I would maintain skeptism though………there always seems to be something odd about, hostility all the time and then nomality. A calm before the storm perhaps? Keep your guard up….you are the ONLY person that can protect your heart!